Responsible Blogging

Cori's picture

I'm disturbed by the fact that there is so little accountability amongst Christians in the blogging world. This is a public sphere with a far reach. Everything that happens on-line is archived pretty much forever. I'm thinking of that cliche: Your life may be the only Bible some people read. Well, Christian blog may be the only Bible some people read. And what they're reading sometimes gives me shivers. If we were sitting face-to-face over coffee we'd probably be a lot more gentle and kindly to one another.

I'd like to invite bloggers who would like to be responsible to join me in committing to accountability relationships with other bloggers. This would include the commitment of not posting anything while in the heat of an emotion, being open to feedback and gentle critique from their accountability partners in terms of our content but also our tone, writing what is on your heart off-line and then leaving it for at least a few hours to prayerfully consider it before publishing it on-line. What other things could we add here?

The on-line world often gives a sense of urgency, a sense that we must post a response right now, immediately, at once. But the response that we would write after a few hours of thoughtful reflection is more likely to be the one that reflects Christ. The question I'm starting to ask myself with every blog post and every comment that I leave (after being burnt and burning others so many times!) is whether I am contributing to the healing of the world, or its destruction. May we always seek to reconcile, to bring hope and life, even to this slightly bizarre on-line world.

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The difficulty with this

The difficulty with this post, Cori, is that it may have something good to say, but it is hard to discern what that might be. It would not seem to refer specifically enough for one to be able to do that. And if one were to deconstruct some of its terms -- the shivers, (un)kindly, the heat of emotion, (un)accountability, and so on, one wonders whether such comments would qualify as the "gentle" which is spoken of. My own experience has been that there is a kind of friendship in South Africa's Christian blogosphere, whereby the debates are understood to be in good faith. I can probably only remember one "hostile" exchange in a year. But then, I may not move in the same areas of the blogosphere.

nicpaton's picture

present

Cori
The way virtuality has invaded our thinking is frightening. We must be truly present to one another as to God, at all times.

I've been on the recieving end of dispensational virtualised slander recently, and it aint pretty.

Cori's picture

Friendship

Thomas, you're one of the lucky ones! You're right, though. I've also experienced the South African Christian blogosphere as being exceptionally kind. I think a lot of the more aggressive stuff that my husband and I have received on our blogs comes from the United States.

Nic, I like your comment on being present to one another. I'll remember that as I blog!

Tim Victor's picture

the realm of personal writings

Cori,

To my mind the realm of personal writings includes biographies, autobiographies, memoirs, diaries and - more recently - blogs. They are precisely the place for 'in the moment' statings and arguings, for emotion, for expression.

Christianity has blown its witness long ago. I don't believe there's reason to believe that blogging is going to seal the deal for many in rejecting the faith. Sure it'll provide ammo and stumbling blocks.

andrew's picture

Nothing wrong with a little "argy-bargy"

Tim,
I fully agree with you on this one...but, on other issues I fight you to the death!! hee hee hee...

ps: dictionary def: "Argy-Bargy" Vigorous discussion, dispute
pps: Let's meet for coffee, it's been awhile!!

Blessings
Andrew

Steve Hayes's picture

Arguments

Vigorous discussion and debate are fine.

The problem arises when it it attacks people rather than arguments, opinionholders rather than opinions. And when it is based on deliberate misrepresentation of what someone else has said.

I take it that when it is said that this is a "safe" place to discuss theology, it does not mean that we will all agree, but rather that we can disagree without being disagreeable.

Tim Victor's picture

touche

That's either French or I've sworn at you (which is also French?).

Coffee sounds great! I'm booked up this week, so maybe next week? I'll give you a call :)

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